Poor brotha, he doesn't realize what he's dealing with, this is the power of the black woman. It is not just her body that is captivating it's her attitude. Confident attitude has always put black woman in the spot light, her self esteem is at a very high level. Some sistas are afraid to use their gift, they don't want to seem arrogant or obnoxious, well if that's the case I hope you have some elbow grease cause your going to need it. Some brothas can't handle this confident sista they interpret this attitude as being mean and they feel intimidated by them, that's because you don't understand them, you see by their being open and deliberate their forcing you to be open and deliberate and to stop trying to cater to her all the time watching what you say trying to pose as sincere, she already know you putting on an act so you can get you "some". Loosing up act like you talking to one of your buddies and this fine woman will respect you. Her openness is her strength her way of survival, her confidence has to be high cause people will not like you unless you like yourself. This attitude draws great people toward her and pushes weak people away. So I say, embrace this strong, sexy, confident, intelligent, Black Woman!